Skewed Perception

Recently, Dove asked a sketch artist to draw several different women based on their own descriptions and the descriptions of strangers, without the artist ever seeing the actual subject: http://realbeautysketches.dove.us/. The results indicated strangers perceived them as more attractive than they themselves had. This is both inherently sad and uplifting.

The experiment is quite similar to one of the reasons I began camming. I knew I did not have an objective opinion of my appearance. As I often put it, “the mirror lies.” Put alongside other real [read: non-airbrushed] women, I began to see the strengths rather than the weaknesses in my appearance. I saw more of my physical assets than my [alleged] physical flaws. I discovered how to emphasize my best features and downplay those of which I wasn’t as fond.

Through camming, I have come to aspire to more attainable standards. I don’t pick up a glossy magazine and think “I want to look like that,” because “that”  isn’t a realistic representation of beauty. It is false; it is something no one can ever actually BE. I’ve learned I’m much happier and fulfilled by striving to be the best I possibly can be and by acknowledging “perfection” is a subjective ideal that is equally illusive to everyone, not just to me.

Mad Men Season 6

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Mad Men Season 6 is set to premiere in the US on April 7th. *squee*

The program’s creator, Matthew Weiner, has confirmed the show will jump ahead in time, but, ever cryptic, he won’t say by how much. Since he had previously stated he wanted to end the show in the present day and he also confirmed this is the second to last season, there’s been even more speculation, with some fans suggesting the new season will be set in the seventies. However, based on the promo photos and episode stills that were “leaked” (c’mon we all know these were intentionally released as teasers to generate interest and build excitement), I feel fairly certain that we’ll stay in the late sixties.

There are some era clues found in the fashion worn in the Mad Men Season 6 “leaked” images.

Look at what people are wearing: their clothing and their hairstyles- not just the main players, but those in the background as well. On the men: Tuxes and sport coats are not as colorful or ruffled as in the seventies and the bowties, collars and lapels are not as jumbo sized. Men’s hair is still fairly short. Sideburns have appeared, but they are small and close-cropped, as opposed to large, bushy chops. On the ladies: The swimsuit cuts are not yet as skimpy as string bikinis and the prints are almost psychedelic- bright, floral, paisley and the sunglasses, no longer catseye, are colorful and round, but not yet as bug-shaped or oversized as the seventies models. The aviator style is not yet in vogue. Hair is getting longer on men and women. Ladies are going naturally wavy and voluminous on top, with the side often clipped up and the back loose in the late sixties. The ends might be flippy, but wings ala Farrah Fawcett are not yet popular. Evening wear is still pretty structured and midlength, still using sateens and tafettas with cinched waists, as opposed to long, flowy goddess style dresses in sheer, gauzy fabrics or, < insert deity here > forbid, polyester.

Not only are there clues in the attire, but also remember that this show likes to incorporate socially significant events from the era. There are too many from just prior to the seventies to ignore (i.e. continuation of the Vietnam War, Martin Luther King assassination, Robert Kennedy assassination, the space exploration race with Russia, civil unrest around the world, nuclear testing, bra burning feminism, the death of Andy Warhol, Hippie movement, Woodstock, desegregation of schools, flight of the Concorde, Pele, Ralph Nader’s consumer advocacy, etc…), just to name a few. This is too vital and volatile of a time to omit. However, with previous interviews indicating Weiner’s intent to end the show in the present day, I wonder what will get glossed over in the remaining episodes in order to put us there.
So, let me go on record as predicting Mad Men will not resume in the seventies this season, but that we’ll only jump a few months to, say, late 1967-early 1968.

We’ll find out in a month…!!!!

Current Beauty Routine

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Since I’m often asked what products I use, I thought this might be interesting or helpful to some of you. And, if not, feel free to scroll on by…  ;) I typically wear the same makeup shades year round, but I do switch up  foundations and skincare items seasonally. Indiana has pretty brutal Winters and Summers, [...]

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Free Weekend

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My boyfriend is away for the weekend on his family’s annual Clifty Falls trip. I’m always invited and I think about going along every year, but ultimately don’t. (It looks beautiful, but I’m not much for hiking and I don’t know how well I would do around kids for an extended period of time. Also, [...]

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Hibernation Mode

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This is about the time of year when the soul swallowing darkness, the bleak gray landscape and the blistering cold have caused me to lose my effing mind. Had I not had the foresight to vitamins this Winter, I think I would be pretty far gone already. Hey, we’ve got almost another 4 months to [...]

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Beauty Tip: Nike Eyeshadow?!

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Emma Stone is undeniably gorgeous. I think she has terrific eye makeup in this photo in particular. It really is fairly simple to duplicate the look – just sketch the shape onto your eye area with a brush, fill it in and blend a bit. If you’re having trouble getting the perfect cat eye or [...]

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The Leaf And Erica Spindler

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When I switched from my analog tv with a converter box to an led hdtv with a digital tuner, I lost a few channels. Not that I watch a lot of tv, but I was a little bummed because it meant no more Criminal Minds marathons (mmmm, Kirsten Vangsness as Penelope Garcia), She’s Crafty (I [...]

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Foot-Fic

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* This is a re-post of an erotic short story written 7/9/09. Wouldn’t it be absolutely delicious torture if you had a foot fetish and you were a nail tech… not only working around barefoot women all day, but having to intimately touch their feet? Would you have to excuse yourself to the bathroom to [...]

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New Year, New Design, New Direction!!!

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It’s always nice to start with a clean slate! What better time than now? As some of you may know, I started blogging in 1994 and began camming in 2001. (Di.no.saur.) If I am really, truly honest with myself (uh-oh) and with you too (double uh-oh), I have been feeling burnt out on both for [...]

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